Parenting Children with Uncontrollable Behaviour: Challenges and Practical Solutions
Parenting a child who shows uncontrollable behaviour like aggression, defiance, tantrums, or emotional outbursts can be overwhelming. These behaviours may stem from trauma, inconsistent parenting, exposure to violence, or developmental conditions like Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
Under the Children’s Act 38 of 2005, children have the right to dignity and protection. Parents are encouraged to use positive discipline and avoid harsh punishment. Social workers help families understand the causes behind the behaviour and guide them through supportive interventions.
Strategies for Managing Challenging Behaviour:
- Stay Consistent
Set clear rules and follow through with consistent, calm consequences. - Use Positive Reinforcement
Praise and reward good behaviour to encourage repetition. - Create Structure
Establish predictable routines for meals, sleep, and activities. - Model Good Behaviour
Children learn by watching. Stay calm, respectful, and in control—even during stress. - Strengthen Connection
Spend quality time together to build trust and open communication. - Seek Support
Work with social workers, teachers, and mental health professionals when needed. - Practice Self-Care
Parenting a high-needs child is tough—take time to recharge and seek emotional support.
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